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Category: Motivation

Why outcasts are successful.

Being different is hard. If you’re different you won’t be accepted withing the group. People like alike people.

People don’t befriend people who are different.

Being successful means carving your own pathway. And success – it’s sure fucking hard. Everyone thrives towards success.

If you’re a social outcast.

Try to envision your own life. Live the way you want, because the society won’t accept you no matter what you do – because you’re different.

Social outcasts are unique people, but being unique doesn’t mean useful. Social outcast has to be somehow useful to others, but it’s damn hard. I’m somewhat a social outcast. Very small group of people care about what I do. Being disabled is a criteria that makes your life harder.

Sure not everyone can be a leader. But social outcasts tend to be leaders, independent thinkers, innovators, if I may.

Living itself is a harsh thing.

Everyone is working and social outcast has to find a way. How to live the dream, if you don’t live the dream – why live at all? What’s the point of doing chores, going to work and getting paid just to spend all that cash.

During my life I realized that money is a temporary thing. It comes and goes out. Then you’re empty handed again.

There has to be some secret in life which lets people become rich. Personally me, I haven’t found the secret.

I just have one thing to say. OWN WHAT YOU WORK ON!

Don’t work for other people, work for yourself and maybe someday your dream life will come to you.

I own this blog, this blog is a money making machine. Well, it’s not yet, but someday it will be – because I believe.

Being an outcast means being different. And different people are the ones who make all the innovation. Independent thought is what counts.

You want to push out to the world your own ideas. If you’re an outcast you’re most likely not following anyone on social media. You want followers and you yourself are not a follower.

Real leaders aren’t followers.

Leading requires a lot of guts. Because you want to lead people to victory.

But people have to notice you. People have to see what great things you offer. Personally me, I offer a way to escape the matrix. Meaning how to lead a parasitic lifestyle, not work, rebel and disobey.

That’s great when you want more time on your hands. Don’t spend your time working for others. Do something that you’ll be proud of when you’ll die.

That said – lead, don’t follow.

If you’re an outcast – you’re born for success.

Believe in yourself.

You know, I’m not this motivational guy who’ll tell that you can achieve anything. Most things are hard to achieve and some of those things require a lot of guts.

I just want to tell you – that if you have an idea, it’s not enough. You need perfect execution. Making good things require a lot of people. You can’t make a good musical clip alone, it requires 100 people. That is, if you want people.

But believing in yourself is the stepping stone towards great goals.

You don’t have to believe in god, believe in yourself.

Because the only person who can make a change in your life is yourself.

We’re all different people, we all have different goals and different lifestyles. It’s hard to get motivated when goal achieving is hard.

But you need a drive, an inner motivation. None of the external motivation will help. I tried many times to get motivated with external motivation, but I used to get motivated for one day and then I just quit.

I like quitting things, because most things aren’t for me.

I know I’m a failure, I just like to write and share my life’s secrets.

There is no secrets. Like Nike says: “Just do it”.

Personally me, I say don’t do it.

Doing this thing, for years and actually taking some risk requires a lot of belief.

I know my blog will be popular someday. But that day didn’t come yet.

Anyway. Believe in yourself, because what else you’ve got left?

How to get your ass motivated!?

So now you have a goal, how do you actually achieve it?

Goals like going to the gym require a lot of motivation. Personally me, I don’t like gyms. I love writing.

You see motivation has to be internal, external motivation only gives you temporary boost in your brain. And then it slowly deteriorates.

How do you get motivated internally?

Ask yourself – how bad do you want to achieve your goal?

Do you want it bad, or just meh?

If you want to achieve your goal so bad – then you should be motivated. But if your goal is just meh, then all the world’s motivation won’t help you.

Try switching your goal to a goal which will fire you up.

You want a goal that fuels you up and lights you up. Because if reaching a goal exhausts you – that’s probably not your goal.

Think clearly about your goals, since lack of motivation is a sign of laziness. But laziness is a sign of energy saving. If you’re lazy – your body saves energy.

Your body knows internally what to do, so maybe you choose a wrong goal, a goal that’s not for you, but I don’t want to discourage you.

Maybe you are underdeveloped for your goal.

If you are underdeveloped for your goal – you will never achieve it. Sorry to break it to you.

Get up and do it, just like Nike says “just do it”.

If you force yourself to go to a gym, or do anything else. You’ll get exhausted. Achieving goals don’t require force.

Think about it – maybe it’s something wrong with your goal?

Maybe your goal is to difficult, or you’re underdeveloped for your goal.

Personally me. I wake up every day and write, it’s been 8 months I write daily on this blog, earlier I wrote elsewhere.

I can’t say that I’m very motivated. I just write, my motivation is internal. I need motivation when I want to achieve something different. But then I end up quitting, because my goal is to write this blog and not go to the gym.

It’s nothing wrong with quitting. Don’t be afraid to quit if you have to.

Just remember that if you’ll quit – you’ll never have.

Achieving something is really hard.

If you feel that you don’t have any motivation, maybe then you don’t have a goal.

You don’t need motivation to achieve something, you need motivation to achieve specific things. Motivation without a goal doesn’t work.

Get yourself a goal. And then motivation will come.

You don’t need motivation when you’re drifting. It’s easy to drift.

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