To Love or to be Loved?

When my grandmother was alive she asked me:

What’s better to love or to be loved?

And since I was all into philosophy I told that love is better than being loved.

Every emotion we have are more powerful than those which we don’t have.

I love my cactus, had somewhere a video of it, can’t find it.

A man can only love things that are static, a man can’t love something that is dynamic, if a man loves someone which is dynamic, the love will fluctuate. Sometimes love will be bigger, sometimes lesser.

Even when a man loves himself, he sometimes hates himself, since the man itself is dynamic and not static.