We might assume that we know what other people think about us but it’s faulty assumption.
People are so in their lives that they just don’t have time to think about us. Sure maybe they want to hear from us but they don’t think about us – once again it’s an assumption.
We can assume that we are special and people use their time to think about us, or we can assume that we’re not so special and people don’t have the time to think about us.
This makes pure sense. Do you think about Brad Pitt? No you don’t even when he’s famous.