Vygintas Varnas

Matrix Hacks

Day: November 28, 2018

What do you do when people ignore you?

I’ve been in the ignore stage for a long time. This is just how the game works for people who never go viral.

At first people ignore you so you would get discouraged, I got discouraged many times, but I just kept at it.

When people realize you won’t give up by being ignored, then they going to fight you with their online rants, tell you that you suck, you have no life and you’re miserable fuck.

Then they’re going to laugh at you and they’re going to laugh at you for a long time, but then again a person who is afraid to be ashamed should not do anything shameful, right? Wrong, person who wants to build his tribe, should make every possible mistake in the alphabet.

And then, after all the knockdowns you’re going to win. Winning actually takes a lot of time, therefore many people give up.

You just have to show up despite the facts against you, because otherwise you’ll never going to win. And they will win, because they knocked you down so hard, you couldn’t stand up – you don’t want that.

Being an individual is a fight against mediocre people. Most people are marionettes and they don’t know it.

Thoughts that build Self Esteem

“The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you’re inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.” – Morpheus.

Life can give you whatever you want because there is so much abundance.

Don’t believe me? Look around, you see businessmen, teachers, lawyers and other people who are so into the system and want to protect that system.

The system is unfair to a certain degree but it can provide you with everything you desire – you just have to play by the rules of the system itself.

When it comes to understanding the system, you have to notice that there isn’t any system or anything, there’s just bunch of people who are trying their best to survive.

Everybody is pursuing his own desires because everybody wants to be fulfilled.

You just can’t sit around and expect to be fulfilled because nobody will fulfill you if you won’t do anything. Every person is in the market. Some people are very competent and useful while others have no use at all. If people are useless to the market they feel worthless.

Being worthless sucks, I’ve been there. I felt worthless.

There are two ways to feeling.

You accept everything you are told and you accept the value the market gives you, or;
You don’t accept anything you are told and provide the market with the best that you’ve got.

Every person out there will drag you down because it really is hard to build something when you don’t have any money, reputation, competence and anything – it really is hard and don’t believe people who say everything is easy.

Building skills and competence takes time, but you are ahead of many people if you’re building yourself up. Everybody who is doing nothing is actually falling behind.

It’s your choice to play the game by the rules or not, but if you won’t provide anything to the market you will be poor forever. By saying poor, I mean miserable.

I’m not a hypocrite, I used to be, but now I’m feeling this sincere feeling towards humans. For years I was helping people to understand things for free, I thought my knowledge is worthless while some folks told me that I throw away gold for free and you don’t want to throw away gold for free because we live in a monetary society. One has to produce some coin to be worth something.

Don’t believe people who tell you that producing things is easy – it’s not. It’s easy to produce and it’s hard to sell. If you can’t sell your knowledge, your wisdom or your experience – you probably have nothing valuable.

Eventually the market decides what value you’ve got, but remember you can always increase your value because you can learn every skill out there if you really want.

I never saw a valuable person in the market to be in misery. Miserable are those who have no value or their value is deeply hidden.

You can’t increase your value by drinking beer and watching dumb shows on TV, when you put dumb stuff in your head – you have dumb stuff in your head. You must be aware of it because when people watch farts they have farts in their head it’s so obvious but many people don’t understand it.

Everything you put in your head is shaping and shifting you and you want good stuff in your head because you are stuck in your head forever.

Many people are lost, they have no idea what they want to do and what they want to achieve despite my efforts to explain and guide people, they are simply stuck in their own reality.

Reality can give you whatever you want, well, not reality but the market since a sale is simply an exchange but when you have nothing to give – you can’t get anything simple as that.

Most people tell there is no money and people have no money but you see people doing monetary exchange all the time…

Having self esteem is not simply “thinking in a confident way”, you can think confident as much as you want but if you are not producing any results you will be feeling worthless all the time.

Certainly there is a way of thinking but to feel real confidence and self esteem you got to achieve something because nobody gives respect to people who have the means but aren’t doing anything. People without limbs and arms are achieving more than people who have the means.

Simply said, many people have lost the interest in money and life and achieving things due to fact that everything seems to be corrupt and unfair but bare with me – everything is always going to be unfair and corrupt to people who have no competence and aren’t willing to grind.

Everybody knows that sitting on a couch and watching TV doesn’t produce results but then again, maybe those people don’t want any results? When you don’t want any results, you can’t complain about results not happening because I know – nobody wants to be around a person who whines and complains, I used to do that and I noticed – it doesn’t work.

Complaining solves nothing and does nothing but it makes you feel good when you complain, one has to overcome the complaining stage – I guess, because it simply means that one is stuck in life when he complains but nobody is going to tell you what you need to do.

There will come some theoretical knowledge if people knew what to do – they would do it themselves, isn’t it so?

If a person wants to solve problems in the practical worth he must do something practical, not theoretical. Theory is theory and it’s always in the head.

The problem isn’t that one can’t achieve anything in life, but the problem is that many people wander without focus and when they are without focus – they stall.

As long as you stall without focus you will never achieve anything.

I hear many people tell this: everybody can be a writer and write a book. But they themselves haven’t written anything. Writing a book is the least a man can do if he posses some knowledge.

Writing a book makes you an instant expert. There are many people wishing about changing their life but nobody wants to do the change because doing the change is really hard.

And sometimes the change is simply irrelevant.

If a person wants to do something, he must do it because the opportunities will never come. I’ve been waiting for opportunities a lot. I wrote one book and told myself: if people don’t like my book maybe I’m a bad writer and then after few years people told me that my book is the best they have heard in their life and they want more.

Sometimes to move forward a person has to get some evidence that what he is doing is really great and not everybody can do it.

People are lost, people assume there is something magical that’s going to happen in their lives. I can assure nothing magical won’t happen to you, of course people are winning the lottery and becoming rich by other means, but it’s not about other people – it’s about you.

Will you become rich?

Will you attract the lottery ticket? If so, when?

Will you go to that lady you liked for many years, if no – why?

You see all these people having wonderful lives, enjoying their days – you know there must be something wrong with you, the way you think, but then again you don’t want to shape your mind according to the society, you want to shape the society according to your mind.

One doesn’t have to do all these drastic changes to change all the life. It’s a step by step process. Quitting smoking is that easy and yet, most people fail. Why is that?

Getting in shape is that easy but most don’t do it but they wish they would be in shape. I’m not in shape but I don’t wish about it. If I would wish, I would do it.

If you can’t do something – stop wishing, period.

Someday, sometime, it just won’t come and man, time runs out.

Many people do random things in life just because they aren’t focussed. I used to drink, smoke – I was so lost but I always knew I will be a writer, I knew I will make money online but everything was bad for me I didn’t change the goal, I changed my methods.

You see, people change goals. Once I went to a gym for one day and then I changed my goal. I decided to drink only water and then I changed my goal, many times I made a decision to quit smoking but after few hours I changed my goal – when you change your goal, you won’t achieve anything because the goal is undefined.

If one is pursuing something, or if he at least wants to pursue something – he has to have a DEFINED GOAL.

Because if the goal is not defined, there simply won’t be a clear decision on where to go.

Even when the goal is defined – the road will be bumpy sometimes but that shouldn’t scare a man who is willing to go on a bumpy road.

Focus on what you want, not something you don’t want.

If you are feeling worthless then invest in yourself and build worth. Even the crippled man can produce something good if he is willing to do it because most aren’t willing.

Simply said, most aren’t willing.

For many years, I accepted defeat. I thought that life simply happens to a person and he can’t do anything about it. Then I started reading all these rich guys and they tell that you have to build life and it makes sense because you can’t sell a book which is not written.

That made a lot of sense to me when I was younger. It took me years and years to understand things because I was skipping school, not going to university but I was always expanding my knowledge just because everything was so hard to understand.

I wouldn’t expand my knowledge if everything was easy to understand, the more I learned, the dumber I got, because you just can’t learn everything and that’s why you have to have laser targeted focus on what you want to become later in life.

Everybody is going somewhere through time, but most aren’t aware where they are going. To shift the finish line one has to be conscious of what he is doing and believe me, many people aren’t conscious of their behavior. I know, because I used to be unconscious.

Some people see, some people need to be guided and some never see and don’t want to be guided and this is their choice, you can’t do anything about anybody, you can only do something about yourself.

You can’t expect somebody else to change and you can’t expect opportunities to come into your life. Just look at problems and solve problems, do whatever makes you kick.

I just want to be honest with you, there are many people who want to misguide the ones who have less information. I don’t want to do that.

Audio003 – How to pick a market?

 

Me talking about business and the market, you want to be in a market which has some money in it.

There a lot of things to learn in business and you better be learning, not stalling.

Because stalling and complaining makes no difference, sure there are times one must complain, but complaining is just a phase in life.

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The First Free Apple

When you look at sales as it is an exchange, getting your first apple for free to sell makes a lot of sense.

If you won’t get a free apple – you won’t be able to sell it.

This raises a question: how do you get a free apple?

There are many situations in this life: some are born rich, some are born poor, some are born with resources and some are not.

Free apple is simply a thing you produce yourself: it can be a book, or a blog, or something that doesn’t cost you anything to produce and has some value in the market.

When producing your first free apple be sure it has demand in the market because otherwise you will be producing rotten apples which have no demand.

The $1 problem

I see these kids wanting to be rich, but to be frank I got to state the obvious.

If you can’t earn $1 – you can’t earn $1 000 000, which makes most people simply incompetent to earn this kind of money.

Me included because if I was competent. I would be rich already.

I play the game in the field to win, but winning really takes a lot of work which is simply fruitless.

Back in the day I used to make money but now I just can’t understand what happened to my knowledge. I guess the market and the circumstances have changed.

When people around you get poorer, you then get poorer.

If you want to make $1 000 000, you have to be in a market which has this kind of money, because if the market is empty, you won’t make that money despite your efforts.

It’s the market that gives us money and if the market is poor then there simply is no money in it.

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