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Day: November 26, 2018

Trusting yourself – why it’s so special?

Let’s admit one thing.

If you can’t trust yourself – why anyone else should trust you?

Trusting your own gut is in some people, other people don’t trust themselves, we know this due to big demand in psychology and depression and etc. I’m not a specialist in psychology, but I know one or few things.

Don’t let other people’s opinions shape your behavior, in general my blog is for individuals or people who want to become the best within their capabilities.

I don’t write fluff or bullshit that’s common in other websites.

I trust myself, do you?

If you don’t trust yourself, think about it this way: what can I give to other people? Can I carve a new way of life even though nobody trusts me?

Being trusted is really rare, when everybody wants to scam everybody. So one has to be transparent and vulnerable as much as possible because this builds up strength and trust.

Many people which I know, don’t trust themselves and think they are worthless, sure some are young and some are old. Old people have experience, but don’t have time, young people don’t have experience but have time. So it’s a fair trade off.

If you had some harsh times in your life, you have a lot of undiscovered strength within you, but you level up by doing hard things. It may be will building, patience building, or any other building that you think suits you and your personality.

Remember, that there isn’t a single individual who knows more about you than you.

Nobody knows how you should live, I’m sure not the one who can give you a life goal.

If you have some strengths, work on them. Forget for a moment about your weaknessess.

Just because there is no time to think about weakness, because when you have a strong side – you are way above others in that field and you’re just slightly of from life you want to have.

Sure it can take many years to build that life, but you’d better try to do it. If not – you’re going to be in the same exact spot for the rest of your life.

Sometimes you just have to bruteforce things to your advantage.

If it’s hard, to it more, so you got used to it.

Doing the hard things gives you strength – think about that and execute, because one’s ideas without work are useless and worthless.

Selling Time vs Selling Products

Imagine you have one month of time with which you can do whatever you want.

What would you do?

Would you build something? Or would help someone else build something?

Many people choose to help others build something due to fast financial reward.

You go to work and sell your time, but then again – you don’t have any time left.

Or you can choose to build something over a period of month which later you can sell and sell and sell.

I never understood why people sell their time instead of building something cool.

Building something of your own is very hard. But when you build it it remains built.

The Choice

Let’s illustrate a point:

It’s a popular video I just watched recently.

It visually shows how life is going to happen when you do what you do.

Everybody has a choice.

Big or small choices become habits and people consist of habits.

You just can’t be a man without habits.

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